doing a lot, changing a lot = transitions
sometimes you may feel like change is too hard to compete against, or with, or even for. I've learned that change is always happening and its up to us whether or not we will continue to happen as well.
I have sacrificed a lot in the name of love (or my loose interpretations of it). The values and ideals I desire in one that can also put me in a position of vulnerability. I am in no way, shape, or form prepared to be hurt, but no one ever truly is.
I've spent my whole life in charge and stagnant. Never growing or changing because things had to be my way or no way at all. And as cool as that wasn't it has also taught me that each woman that was on my ladder was not for me. I think/believe that if someone loves you they will push you to change or grow for the better, and none of them quite could do that. It took a long time for me to realize that because I like having and doing things the way I chose. Most people do. But if a person cares enough about you to tell you what is not right about you, and is not gonna let you run them over and is pushing you to do better and be better, then I think you should hold them down because they are definitely doing the same for you.
I wish I knew this years ago when people who tried this I pushed away and never really tried to do it differently. So many people are brought into your life for reasons,or seasons, or a lifetime. Don't miss out on a lifetime fighting with a reason over your season.
Every season there is some change, and that reason is inevitable, for any and all lifetimes
Change is good but its better when there's someone in your corner helping you do it!
Stay Inspired...
